Have you ever been around the people you think you know the best and they act a certain way. The way they act might be the single most important factor about them that keeps you interested in being around them. Ex: if you know your cousin is always talking about good news or watching the words they say, this makes for a relaxing and welcoming environment. The moment that someone else is around that same cousin they start to say words they normally don’t say, or their behavior might change in a negative way. All this happened to impress the one “new” person that has joined the conversation. A lot of people are guilty of this, including myself in my early years. Now that I have grown and come into my own I put away immature ways. There are several people that are older than me, and I feel like they should know better but the proof is in the pudding, they don’t.
This blog is to here to help you stay true to yourself and others. Here are 3 things you can do to stay on track:
1. Tell the Truth: Always and I mean always tell the truth about yourself to others. I didn’t say be transparent but when something is asked of you, make sure you provide them with all truth. Nothing is worst then when you are asked something by someone and they already know the answer, but just seeing what you are going to say to them. This is how people can tell how close they are to you, by the way you cherish their relationship to you. A person feels like if you lie to them then the hope and trust they have in you is now weakened.
2. Be the Same at all Times: Often too many times we let our surroundings dictate how we react to certain situation. If you know that you are in the presence of a minister or someone who loves and serves the Lord, you are not to be quick to cuss around them, verses being around someone who is no in a church or not a minister. Be the same no matter where you go or who you see there!! This is harder done than said for a lot of people. You have to have a made up mind no matter what happened or who you see. Be yourself at the end of the day and you will win over the respect from your peers and also you will know where you stand with the people you hang around.
3. Be You: Being yourself is the one most important factor to being true to yourself and the people that surround you. I can’t be anybody but who I am designed to be. You should love being yourself because there is only one of you that exist. If you tell the truth, be the same all the time, and be true to yourself, there is no where in life you could not go. Everyone respects the person that stay consistent with there personality. The only time you should make a change is when you are changing for the better and let that be the new standard for your life.
Rather its a family member, classmate, or co-0worker if you notice that they change up way to much and needs guidance to stay consistent send them this way to read and interact with this blog. Name some other ways people can stay true to themselves and others…
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Kent Gant Jr is a ordained teacher and founder of www.kentgantjr.com, which has a total weekly reach in the hundred thousands. Kent earned an associate degree in business management and supervisor training. Following college, he quickly moved into management and managed serval grocery retailing stores along the southeast of America. While publishing his first book in 2015, Kent began traveling and making guest appearances on television and every other news outlet possible to share his ministry with the world. Kent has constant viewers all the time, and his social media following is loyal to reading whatever he is writing next.
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